Those who have read parts #1 and #2 and clicked on the links will understand why I have had to devote a full day to catching up and why I broke it into multiple parts.
Now for Melissa Ohden and the Abortion Survivors Network. https://abortionsurvivors.org/ I just finished reading her book “You Carried Me” and it opened my eyes to an experience that is challenging to comprehend, so I do not claim that anyone can do more that be awed. But, I do now understand the depth of the confused and painful emotions of rejection, shame, and worthlessness experienced by those who survived an attempt by their mothers to end their life in the womb.
However, in lieu of being able to comprehend such emotions, one can easily realize that every unborn child, from the tiniest beginnings, is a real person, a unique individual, like no other who has ever lived. Or, as Melissa testified before the Senate Judiciary Committee in opposition to the (pro-abortion) Women’s Health Protection Act, “You are just as much ‘you’ today as you were when you were developing in the womb.” She also challenged legislators to explain to her how she could have the right to an abortion while simultaneously she was denied the right to live.
Read her book in order to discover how she went from a 30-week old aborted fetus that was discarded into medical waste to overcome the horror of that knowledge and find love and forgiveness, then become a political activist and founder of Abortion Survivors Network.
Before she left for the March for Life in Washington, D.C., on January 21, she told me she was also attending the Students for Life Summit, meeting with Anglicans for Life, and having media events including interviews with EWTN and Dr. James Dodson, founder of Focus on the Family.
That was after ASN came off a weekend in which abortion survivor Michelle (in her first outing as a new speaker) presented herself at Front Range Alliance Church in Colorado Springs where she was welcomed with great interest in her experiences. Many people had questions, and others came up to talk with her afterward. She also reported emotionally impactful bonding experiences.
At another church she received a standing ovation after telling her story. She was also sponsored by Pikes Peak Citizens for life to speak at the Rocky Mountain March for Life rally where she gave what is described as a “fiery” speech. This event was attended by Congressman Doug Lamborn who is a strong pro-life supporter. See his picture with Michelle and people holding signs declaring that “Civil Rights Begin in the Womb.” https://lamborn.house.gov/media/press-releases/marching-life He took contact information in order to stay in touch with ASN.
For those who did not click the link above (yet), please note that there is much pro-life support in Congress, but it needs reinforcement in a time of such vitriolic attacks and hateful rhetoric aimed at pro-life activists and the Christian church, especially Catholics who have led the way in demanding respect for life and promoting an abhorrence for abortion.
Congressman Lamborn (with others) has introduced the Second Chance at Life Act, the Recognizing the Unborn Act, and the Child Tax Credit for Pregnant Moms Act. These “steps in the right direction” are, of course, vigorously opposed by the well-funded pro-abortion factions both in and out of Congress. There is no chance for legislative progress until Congress and the Presidency are on the same page. And, this must reflect the will of the people. That is why every pro-life event is important, and every individual attending is crucial to returning respect for life and individual dignity to the mainstream of society.
There is no greater statement to be made for the cause of protecting life in the womb than the testimony of abortion survivors. It is, indeed, hard for us to imagine the tiny life growing in the womb as an accomplished adult. But, those who have stepped into the light of day to declare that their lives matter are having an increasingly significant impact. The pro-abortion people are trying to ignore them, but more and more people are forced to envision the tiniest pieces of bloody tissue as the remains of a baby, a human person, and not just a piece of amorphous tissue, and “More than a Choice” (as ABN says in their logo).
One of the most important activities of ABN has been the outreach to abortion survivors, to provide support and healing. This is a process, not an event. It is very difficult for many people who have lived secretly with shame and horrifying knowledge, wondering why their mothers considered them so worthless as to be killed before they had a chance to live. The thought is so terrible that I even have difficulty writing the words. However, those who have been through the healing process with the support of those who came before them, the only persons who can understand, have experienced a new sense of being loved and accepted. Many of those have wished to speak out and have been trained to do so. One is Michelle who recently made her outing in Colorado Springs, another is Claire who spoke at the recent Texas Rally for Life, and yet another is Carrie who will kick off a 40 Days for Life campaign with LifeFirst.
Melissa also shared with me the ABN 2021-2022 Policy Impact statement, noting that “abortion survivors have never had a seat at the table when discussing the policies and laws that directly impact them…until now!” In the publication are pictures of Melissa and others with such notables as President Trump in the Oval Office, Congressman Steve Scalise, Senator Ted Cruz, Mike Pompeo, and a number of Congressmen and Congresswomen. The pro-life gala of 2021in Washington, D.C., is remembered, and an astonishing list of media interviews, quotes, comments, and appearances, as well as a stunning list of planned events for 2022 are annotated. To emphasize their political activism, there is a list of legislation supported and opposed, some of the latter being attempts to codify unregulated abortion in various ways.
In a few months, Melissa’s second book will be available: “More than a Choice: Abortion Survivors Break Their Silence.” September 28, 2022, will be the inaugural “Day of Remembrance for Abortion Survivors,” and a ribbon cutting ceremony will be held at the new Memorial for Abortion Survivors (which will be near the Supreme Court). The year 2022 will also premier a new professionally developed documentary on abortion survivors.
I found Abortion Survivors Network while doing research for my book shortly after Melissa founded ABN. Now, in such a short period of time, the awareness of abortion survivors is making news on so many fronts that people are wanting to know more. Melissa and her team are devoted to making that easier and easier. More and more abortion survivors have made themselves known and have requested help with healing, no longer feeling alone in their terrible experiences, often graduating to become speakers, who are much in demand.
All of this requires financial resources, while opposition forces pour hundreds of millions of dollars into promoting denigration of human life and individual dignity. Let us step up to be counted and provide whatever financial help we can to support ABN. Public support for them, and the impact they are having on public attitude, are the most feared things the pro-abortion people face. Let us give them even more to worry about.